Become more focused, centered, and present with your lover, partner, friends, or acquaintances.
Relate to others in such a way that those you want to be with are more likely to want to be with you.
Accept and deal with others as they are rather than causing yourself the unnecessary grief of wanting them to be different.
Take control of your emotional life rather than being at the mercy of out-of-control emotions.
Move from antagonistic, competitive, or indifferent interactions toward more respectful, mutually caring ones.
Gain a deeper sense of which of your actions are genuinely gratifying to you and to others, and which cause avoidable problems, worry, distress, or bad feelings.
Listen and communicate more effectively in ways that allow you and others to hear each others' deep inner concerns and hidden feelings.
Develop or strengthen qualities such as inner freedom and inner security, self-acceptance, self-determination, appropriate trust, and appropriate self-disclosure.
Handle difficult or confusing situations with greater strength, evenmindedness, kindness, tolerance, gratitude, forgiveness, apology, and generosity. |